Mangled Reports

How do you react? Have you ever had knowledge about something but it wasn't direct. Like you knew that a friend of yours was moving but they hadn't told you yet? If you were in that situation how would you react? I don't really know how to react. I have this gut instinct telling me to be angry, frustrated and to act almost like someone stole something from me. Then I have this feeling like maybe they just didn't know how to tell me or something came up. Like the positive side. Or maybe this has happened all because of a mangled report. Like it's all one misunderstanding and soon it will be explained. I have to hope that is what it is. I have to trust God with it.